Nonetheless, to eschew bro tension altogether, one must follow one simple step — don’t talk and/or hit to your bro’s ex-girlfriend, at all.
The short answer is yes, we should, but it’s a lot more complicated than that whether or not we like to admit it.I mean I don’t want to be an ass, but there are plenty of other chicks to talk to at parties and bars.If you just so happen to be at the same one as your friend’s ex, there is no need to play nice or even be formal, just give her the old swim move and keep on the prowl. I didn’t want to get religious in this at all, but I can’t help myself from posing the question, what would Jesus do?Ask yourself this: who are at your core and what would it take to compromise everything you believe in and stand for?Because if you believe you’re not a slithering snake in the grass with double-sided motives, and you’re actually a stand-up, morally balanced individual, then talking or hitting on your good friend’s ex-girlfriend tosses all of that stuff out the window and blowtorches it to smithereens.For whatever reason — there is actually reason, but I’m not Freud and I don’t have the time to explain it, bros continuously fall victim to these unconscious instincts, which are at the root of all our basic problems as males, without even realizing it.This begs the question: should you forgive your bro for talking to and/or hitting on your former girlfriend?I don’t get it, because their relationship has absolutely nothing to do with you, so quit trying to play hero and get back to playing Grand Theft Auto. 5, what do you have problems talking with chicks you don’t know or something?Are you so pathetic that you to have to strike up a conversation with your buddy’s ex because you’re “comfortable” talking to her even though she’s not going to fuck you and you wouldn’t fuck her even if she would?I have a friend who fucked his bro’s ex only to wake up to a text from her that said she was getting back together with her boyfriend. Needless to say, things were awkward for that trio from there on.Nothing to gain Situational speaking, if there is no possibility of penetration and no sexual attraction, then what are you trying to achieve by even approaching your bro’s ex?