Maybe you were focused on your job, friends, sport, spiritual growth, or other truly meaningful endeavors.
Maybe those things took all of your attention, and provided you with lots of satisfaction. It doesn’t matter that your life hasn’t included sex yet; you have lots to be proud of that has nothing to do with getting laid!
The women who are attracted to skinny, quirky, unfashionable guys won’t be able to find you if you pretend to be something else. Highly sexual man beasts like Ryan Gosling are worshiped in women’s magazines.
No matter who you are, you have some very awesome, attractive things about you that women will like.
There are women out there who are attracted to the exact qualities that you possess. Don’t try and bulk up if you really have no interest in body building.
Don’t think you have to be fashionable to get a girl, if you really couldn’t care less about what shoes you wear.
The truth is, great, eligible, sexy guys staying virgins into adulthood is a growing trend, a new normal. You want to have sex, but you don’t want to scare women away by coming on too strong.
You may not feel confident with women, because you don’t have much experience.