My parents told me that I couldnt date a guy that was older than me and I continued to see him behind their backs.Get to know him and figure out their feelings for each other.My mom was uncomfortable with my boyfriend who is 4 years older.My mom saw that he cares for me and wouldn't do anything to hurt me. You'll be able to tell how he feels for her As a freshman in Highschool, I did the same thing.However, with some courage and planning ahead, you just might be able to attract that special someone.I'm not so comfortable with the age difference between the two of them. Set aside some time one day to discuss it with her, but keep in mind: she's not in trouble; you are just concerned about what may happen.My parents had a sit down talk with both of us when we first started dating and there expectations If he came over we had to stay in the living room.I wasn't allowed at his house until we had been dating for two years. I was never disrespected by him or taken advantage of Hope this helps.
My mom had issues with it at first with the whole age thing, but once she got to know him she was okay with it.
Your daughter is going to have to make decisions on her own; ones you don't agree with.
The best you can do is talk to her, tell her your concerns, and be there for her if her decisions backfire. Tell her how you feel about it and what your concerns are.
It took a little while, but now she views him as her second son and we plan on getting married after we both graduate college.
Looking back, I now understand that my mom was mostly afraid of me growing up and me dating someone so much older just made her feel like I was growing up way too fast.